And when they realised that they should change, they changed and now they are having a happy life. If you are the ones, please tell me about your success stories. I need inspiration. Mine has been strained over last 7 yrs.I want to change myself and my attitude so my life %26amp; relationship sees more happiness. Please..Please answer to me how it was strained and how you saved your relationship! Thanx!!I want to listen about couples who have had strained relationships..?
Ohhh, what a serious question for 2:30AM!
In short, YOU have to change your thinking
about your partner. First, give up thinking
if they love you they will change for you. It
can happen, but if its pushed it won't! Accept
them with unconditional love. Love that's
given on condition of some behavior or
action isn't love, its manipulation. Think of
the other person first before yourself. Then,
if you are giving and they are not, and you
desperately NEED them to give, then I'd
have to say find a different partner.
';A happy life'; takes work from both of you.
If you've been struggling for 7 years with a
';Taker';, you're doomed to failure and more
heartache. Sorry, that's the breaks.I want to listen about couples who have had strained relationships..?
juz make them 2 be more fun
try up some new stuff
share with her
change smthg dat u often do
lets say, if u have sexs in bed, try somewhere else
varies them
dont push her dat much'
let she feel u understand her
know her da best
n dont be 2 bossy
doesnt mean dat u dont care, but smtms, she need her own privacy
her own decision
change da menu
change daily activities
y dont u try cook
simple but yet tumbs up!
hey, y dont watch movies tghtr again
at theatre
go places where they reminds both of u when ur 1st met
memories
give a shot
u lose nothing
gd luck
Friday, November 25, 2011
Any good costume ideas for couples?
i need some good costume ideas for me and my boyfriend!
they can be cute, funny, scary, whatever
we don't really want to spend a ton of money on the costume though so if anyone has some fun simple costume ideas for us that would be great!Any good costume ideas for couples?
one of you could be a hippie and the other a mime and you could be peace and quietAny good costume ideas for couples?
Tracy and Link from Hairspray
Danny and Sandy from Grease
Jack and Sally from the Nightmare Before Christmas
Giselle and Prince Edward from Enchanted
Snow White and Prince Charming
Marilyn Monroe and James Dean
lol I'm just throwing these at ya... I love all these :D
You could be Santa and Mrs.Claus or pimp and ho.. or gansta and flapper or plug and socket or police officer and inmate or ketchup and mustard...!!! Hope this helps !!
Mork and Mindy :)
Bonnie and Clyde!
they can be cute, funny, scary, whatever
we don't really want to spend a ton of money on the costume though so if anyone has some fun simple costume ideas for us that would be great!Any good costume ideas for couples?
one of you could be a hippie and the other a mime and you could be peace and quietAny good costume ideas for couples?
Tracy and Link from Hairspray
Danny and Sandy from Grease
Jack and Sally from the Nightmare Before Christmas
Giselle and Prince Edward from Enchanted
Snow White and Prince Charming
Marilyn Monroe and James Dean
lol I'm just throwing these at ya... I love all these :D
You could be Santa and Mrs.Claus or pimp and ho.. or gansta and flapper or plug and socket or police officer and inmate or ketchup and mustard...!!! Hope this helps !!
Mork and Mindy :)
Bonnie and Clyde!
Why do some trouble married couples, absolutely refuse to go to marriage counseling, even when its free to go?
while my husband and i aren't physical with our arguments - we could use some counseling. you want the truth? i don't want to go to counseling because i am afraid of who i am. i'm afraid that i'll find out that i won't like me, and be stuck with those thoughts of me forever. while that really does sound crazy, it's the truth. i don't wanna see me. i know that it would be helpful to me if i did go - and that i can be strong enough to do it, but it take balls...and mine are still growing.
i'll get there, just hopefully before it's too late.Why do some trouble married couples, absolutely refuse to go to marriage counseling, even when its free to go?
Sounds like they grew up with a lot of drama, and they are must mapping the past forward. They don't go because on some level they need that drama to feel normal.
A good friend of mine finally went to marriage counseling with his wife after 7 years of marriage. He resisted for a while, and tends to not believe stuff like that, but he said it was the best thing they ever did. He said that the root cause of much of the stress in their relationship boiled down to a messy house. They got to a point to just hire a house keeper to come if a few times a week and 90% of the stress went away almost over night. For some reason, they just couldn't come to that point by themselves. He said it was the best few hundred dollars they ever spent.Why do some trouble married couples, absolutely refuse to go to marriage counseling, even when its free to go?
They are probably afraid to find out the truth. My brother is a marriage counselor and he says some couples who come blame their partner 100% for every bad thing. He tells them to leave and see a divorce attorney. Some couples are not willing to sit down because they don't care whether it works or not. A few actually enjoy the constant bickering. For marriage counseling to work both husband and wife must be truthful and do what the counselor advises them to do, and they both must desire for their marriage to work.
I refused Marriage counseling because i felt like we could handle our problems ourselves all we had to do was sit down and talk to each other without getting upset which was hard to do. but in the end we worked everything out and we aren't having big problems. we just argue about little stuff just like normal couples.
You really shouldn't be giving married people advice about their marriage unless they ask for it.........especially a 'million' times.Some people actually enjoy this kind of relationship. Obviously they are both getting something out of it or one or both or them would have left. I would suggest if their behavior distresses and frustrates you so, that you just stay away from the. If they ask tell them all the fighting makes you extremely uncomfortable. Does it remind you or your parents?
Have you thought of the possibility that this couple has become addicted that that type of behavior between them? Seems they have accepted it as a normal way of life. Please do not interfer, this is some thing they need to work between them. I know you mean well but one rule of thumb is to stay out of other people's relationship issues.
Well with my experience, they don't want to go because then they will have to take responsibility on who's fault is who. Have to open up to there feelings, and have to get advice from someone that has no Idea about anything to do with them and they might fill that the counsler is taking sides.
Where do you live that counseling is free? Not the US. WHile it is possible to find counseling that charges according to income, I don't know of any where that it is free. Besides which, these couples might be perfectly happy with their contentious relationships, you shouldn't judge.
They feel they do not need it
They feel they can work it out themselves
They dont want other folk in their business
Peference
Misery loves company and those 2 make perfect companions for one another.
Because they are morons. They want to keep up the false everything is ok stay out of our business.
They are ignorant.
They just give up plain and simple.
cuz they don't want to admit they are wrong and don't want to see their own faults..
Maybe they thrive on the abuse, or they don't want anyone to know they problems...it's probably the first one.
PRIDE
They don't believe is going to change anything. which is sad!
i'll get there, just hopefully before it's too late.Why do some trouble married couples, absolutely refuse to go to marriage counseling, even when its free to go?
Sounds like they grew up with a lot of drama, and they are must mapping the past forward. They don't go because on some level they need that drama to feel normal.
A good friend of mine finally went to marriage counseling with his wife after 7 years of marriage. He resisted for a while, and tends to not believe stuff like that, but he said it was the best thing they ever did. He said that the root cause of much of the stress in their relationship boiled down to a messy house. They got to a point to just hire a house keeper to come if a few times a week and 90% of the stress went away almost over night. For some reason, they just couldn't come to that point by themselves. He said it was the best few hundred dollars they ever spent.Why do some trouble married couples, absolutely refuse to go to marriage counseling, even when its free to go?
They are probably afraid to find out the truth. My brother is a marriage counselor and he says some couples who come blame their partner 100% for every bad thing. He tells them to leave and see a divorce attorney. Some couples are not willing to sit down because they don't care whether it works or not. A few actually enjoy the constant bickering. For marriage counseling to work both husband and wife must be truthful and do what the counselor advises them to do, and they both must desire for their marriage to work.
I refused Marriage counseling because i felt like we could handle our problems ourselves all we had to do was sit down and talk to each other without getting upset which was hard to do. but in the end we worked everything out and we aren't having big problems. we just argue about little stuff just like normal couples.
You really shouldn't be giving married people advice about their marriage unless they ask for it.........especially a 'million' times.Some people actually enjoy this kind of relationship. Obviously they are both getting something out of it or one or both or them would have left. I would suggest if their behavior distresses and frustrates you so, that you just stay away from the. If they ask tell them all the fighting makes you extremely uncomfortable. Does it remind you or your parents?
Have you thought of the possibility that this couple has become addicted that that type of behavior between them? Seems they have accepted it as a normal way of life. Please do not interfer, this is some thing they need to work between them. I know you mean well but one rule of thumb is to stay out of other people's relationship issues.
Well with my experience, they don't want to go because then they will have to take responsibility on who's fault is who. Have to open up to there feelings, and have to get advice from someone that has no Idea about anything to do with them and they might fill that the counsler is taking sides.
Where do you live that counseling is free? Not the US. WHile it is possible to find counseling that charges according to income, I don't know of any where that it is free. Besides which, these couples might be perfectly happy with their contentious relationships, you shouldn't judge.
They feel they do not need it
They feel they can work it out themselves
They dont want other folk in their business
Peference
Misery loves company and those 2 make perfect companions for one another.
Because they are morons. They want to keep up the false everything is ok stay out of our business.
They are ignorant.
They just give up plain and simple.
cuz they don't want to admit they are wrong and don't want to see their own faults..
Maybe they thrive on the abuse, or they don't want anyone to know they problems...it's probably the first one.
PRIDE
They don't believe is going to change anything. which is sad!
Can cohabiting (but unmarried) couples in England adopt?
yes.Can cohabiting (but unmarried) couples in England adopt?
The laws have changed now and I you can adopt but have to have been in a relationship for at minimum of 6months. There are other things involved such as Police checks, proof of income that you can afford to adopt etcCan cohabiting (but unmarried) couples in England adopt?
Yes.
Yes of course, almost anyone can adopt these days, but checks are still done and people are still vetted.
Yes you can
The laws have changed now and I you can adopt but have to have been in a relationship for at minimum of 6months. There are other things involved such as Police checks, proof of income that you can afford to adopt etcCan cohabiting (but unmarried) couples in England adopt?
Yes.
Yes of course, almost anyone can adopt these days, but checks are still done and people are still vetted.
Yes you can
Do you find interracial couples attractive together?
A lot of people where I live love these two races together
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xE8YMRbk2…
I have had 2 black girlfriends, one girl was Blask and Asian. What couples do you find attractive?Do you find interracial couples attractive together?
I love seeing two people happy together, no matter what the races of the people involved are. I'm just sappy that way.
Though I don't think of them as ';more attractive,'; I think I do tend to notice interracial couples a lot because I'm in one. And since my boyfriend is Japanese I guess that I especially notice Asian guys with black girls, and because they remind me of my boyfriend and I there is always that extra ';awwww'; factor. :)Do you find interracial couples attractive together?
I like to see Japanese guys with black girls. I think they look cute together. I'm mixed with those things so of course I find it cute lol. But anyways, it's rare to see that coupling but I have been seeing more Chinese and Filipino men with black women these days than any other Asian/bw couples.
the only reason i would find an interacial couple attractive is if it is very rare still, like an asian guy with a black girl but i am always attracted to things/people that are different. being in love or at least genuinely liking eachother is the most important thing seriously
As long as they are happy, then they are among the most attractive couples I've seen.
As for what couples I find attractive. Any couple that I'm in! Lol, I know that was kinda vain, but I'm just trying to lighten up the mood around here a little.
All couples are attractive to me, especially happy ones.
To me, however, love has no color or race.
I notice Asian guys and Black girls together too. I find a lot of interracial couples adorable together. lol that guy's voice in the video is hilarious.
Yes america is a melting pot and our races are starting to mix now. the couples, any couple, are attractive but their children they produce are always beautiful to me!
I don't really find ';couples'; attractive, just people. If they are both good looking then I guess but race has nothing to do with physical beauty.
I find black couples beautiful
Of course I do because I want to date interracially.
I am a black american woman married to a white brazilian man.
i find all couples attractive including interracials
p.s. interracials babies are the cutest
whatever floats your boat
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xE8YMRbk2…
I have had 2 black girlfriends, one girl was Blask and Asian. What couples do you find attractive?Do you find interracial couples attractive together?
I love seeing two people happy together, no matter what the races of the people involved are. I'm just sappy that way.
Though I don't think of them as ';more attractive,'; I think I do tend to notice interracial couples a lot because I'm in one. And since my boyfriend is Japanese I guess that I especially notice Asian guys with black girls, and because they remind me of my boyfriend and I there is always that extra ';awwww'; factor. :)Do you find interracial couples attractive together?
I like to see Japanese guys with black girls. I think they look cute together. I'm mixed with those things so of course I find it cute lol. But anyways, it's rare to see that coupling but I have been seeing more Chinese and Filipino men with black women these days than any other Asian/bw couples.
the only reason i would find an interacial couple attractive is if it is very rare still, like an asian guy with a black girl but i am always attracted to things/people that are different. being in love or at least genuinely liking eachother is the most important thing seriously
As long as they are happy, then they are among the most attractive couples I've seen.
As for what couples I find attractive. Any couple that I'm in! Lol, I know that was kinda vain, but I'm just trying to lighten up the mood around here a little.
All couples are attractive to me, especially happy ones.
To me, however, love has no color or race.
I notice Asian guys and Black girls together too. I find a lot of interracial couples adorable together. lol that guy's voice in the video is hilarious.
Yes america is a melting pot and our races are starting to mix now. the couples, any couple, are attractive but their children they produce are always beautiful to me!
I don't really find ';couples'; attractive, just people. If they are both good looking then I guess but race has nothing to do with physical beauty.
I find black couples beautiful
Of course I do because I want to date interracially.
I am a black american woman married to a white brazilian man.
i find all couples attractive including interracials
p.s. interracials babies are the cutest
whatever floats your boat
Did Palin really say she opposed birth control...even for married couples?
I know she wants to make abortion illegal, but how extreme is she?Did Palin really say she opposed birth control...even for married couples?
I found a quote by Gov. Palin on the political website, ';On the Issues'; which states that she is pro-contraception and anti-abortion.
';Palin said last month that no woman should have to choose between her career, education and her child. She is pro-contraception and said she's a member of a pro-woman but anti-abortion group called Feminists for Life. ';I believe in the strength and the power of women, and the potential of every human life,'; she said.';
Did Palin really say she opposed birth control...even for married couples?
She is pro life
I found a quote by Gov. Palin on the political website, ';On the Issues'; which states that she is pro-contraception and anti-abortion.
';Palin said last month that no woman should have to choose between her career, education and her child. She is pro-contraception and said she's a member of a pro-woman but anti-abortion group called Feminists for Life. ';I believe in the strength and the power of women, and the potential of every human life,'; she said.';
Did Palin really say she opposed birth control...even for married couples?
She is pro life
How old do gay couples have to be to get married in California?
According to law, it's the same as straight couples. To be married you have to be 18, or with parent consent it can be younger.How old do gay couples have to be to get married in California?
They have to be 18 legal age of consent.oil companies
They have to be 18 legal age of consent.
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