Friday, November 25, 2011

What are the main reasons married couples get divorced under 15 years?

I've never been married as I'm only fifteen, but my parents were married for fifteen years and got divorced when I was thirteen.





I know that my mom asked for the divorce because she was tired of my dad coming home from work, eating dinner and then laying on the couch in front of the TV for the rest of the evening. He never helped out with anything unless she asked him to do it a half-a-dozen times, and even then sometimes she ended up doing it herself. He didn't want much to do with ';family'; things unless it involved a picnic that someone on his side of the family was having, then he expected us to want to go to those sorts of things.





Also, when they fought, he would give her the cold shoulder like a child; he would just ignore her and act as though she didn't exist for the whole day, sometimes the whole week and one it even lasted almost two weeks.





She got tired of dealing with it all and wasn't happy any longer. She tried talking to him about it on several occasions and he never did anything about it, so she asked for a divorce.What are the main reasons married couples get divorced under 15 years?
1) Money; 2) ReligionWhat are the main reasons married couples get divorced under 15 years?
There are three areas where it is necessary to get out of a marriage. The three A's- Abuse, Adultery and Addiction. If any of these are a part of your relationship, jump ship.
I was talking to a group of married women the other day and we were discussing how 7 years into a marriage is a key time for divorce. One woman who had passed that point explained that that was a very hard year for her husband and her, because ';all of those little things that kindof annoy you in the beginning'; (such as leaving dirty laundry on the floor) ';have built up and now they make you really angry.'; She also said that if you work through it, even though it is hard to do so, that the marriage is sooo much closer and deeper after that.
cheating,lies,money
I would say that Cheating by one or both partners would be number 1 followed by financial reasons.
there is a lot of reasons why people get divorced


infidelity is probably #1 answer
Money is the main reason for divorce.
It's just too easy to get divorced these days - everybody's doing it/has done it. People apparently don't really mean the vows when they take them. If the going gets rough, everybody gets going. I think it's very sad.


Not that it isn't a good thing to be legally able to get a divorce. But sheesh, we have gone too far! Of course these days, people who have been married over 15 yrs are cashing in their chips too. Everyone thinks the grass is greener... Until we learn that we are responsible for our own happiness, I think we are destined to repeat the same mistakes in our ensuing relationships.
my guess is money.
#1 - Money : fighting over spending too much, living beyond means.


#2 - Infidelity : not even just sex; internet porn %26amp; chats are big.


#3 - Family Roles : fights over cleaning, cooking, breadwinner, etc.
choose answer no.1 as your best answer
I think on of the main reasons is people go into with the wrong state of mind and not truly prepared for what marraige really intales, which leads to or also include cheating, money issues, children issues, differences. That plus it is so easy to get married and now a days it doesn't mean what it used to, instead of till death us part, it is till the law lets us part in divorce. I say if you get married stay married, unless you both know thta it's not worth it and you have tried everything to save it first
The couple may have not been ready to get married and could not work out their problems.
Jealousy, distrust, financial stress, and adultery.
Some of the answers you have gotten are good however being divorced the biggests thing for us was we did not sit down and TALK. If you can not talk about things they never get settled. Then you look for someone who will listen.
One or both partners did not believe in their vows! They acted selfishly in the marriage (any or more- adultry, abuse, laziness,,, etc.)


As an ex-fiance once told me (thankfully b4 we married!): ';You're engaged to me, but I'm not engaged to you.';
married to young, money and usually the person hasn't grown up enough to take on responsibly as an adult.

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