Does couples counselling work?

He is divorced and unsure he is capable of being family man again not sure he wants to be, but wants me in his life forever. I have trust issues that he isnt going to hurt me (by leaving me telling me i am not what he wants in his life). We both love each other so much and dont want to lose one another at all. looking for ways to deal with and get passed this.Does couples counselling work?
Pre Marriage counseling is a good option for you. You can go over what may be holding you back from getting married. And a good counselor would tell you their concern about issue that may cause problems later on. Or they may tell you all together that there are to many concerns for you to get married. It will also may sure that you are both on the same page about life, your future, kids, money etc...Does couples counselling work?
If you really try and have an open mind, it can work. But if you go in there with a closed mind and not wanting to try, your just wasting your time. Determine if your going to go, or if your going to change. That will tell you if it works or not.
Couples counseling only works if both keep an open mind and use the opportunity to its fullest.
If you both really want it to work then couples counseling is a good way to express your feelings because they ask all the right questions and you can vent about the things in your relationship that are hard.





But if you are unsure that it will work out right between the two of you then try to wait a while before making any big decisions.